At a favorite local restaurant, Christian and I overheard a bartender dispensing advice to a young, single woman, looking for a new guy.
“Stop limiting yourself!”This statement, her pleading refrain, was peppered between observations regarding the single woman’s previous fishing attempts. Why would anybody would look for love in a bar? If you meet a guy at a bar, you end up with a guy who likes to go out drinking!
She began to offer alternatives. Church, for example. “Those guys are very well rounded.” Taking up a new hobby was also an option. “Then you’ll definitely have something in common.” But my favorite recommendation?
“Go to college for a month!”We joined the conversation at this point. The women were friendly, and we had fun coming up with a few recommendations of our own.
That night, I started thinking about how that bartender’s advice can apply to more than just finding one’s Prince Charming. If you don’t like the results you’ve gotten so far, no matter what you’re doing, you really have no choice but to try something new. And why limit yourself to what you’ve already tried or what you already feel comfortable with?
Since then, “stop limiting yourself” has been swirling around in my head. In fact, as a direct result of this, I recently took on some contract work that I wouldn’t have considered before. I plan to continue contemplating this piece of advice. Although I have no idea what the outcome will be, I’m pretty sure it will lead to something new or different and that should make for an even more interesting year.